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You can't always change the people вокруг you, it has been hard enough to change
себя, right? All that you really have control over when you имеешь дело с others is if you really want to иметь дело с them, and work things out, or if you do not.
There are many отношений (между М и Ж) that can be исправлены with just a little work, but if both стороны aren't willing to меняться and compromise*, then there is более чем, вероятно, no good причины to attempt* these перемены, and it will probably just be best for both сторон to двигаться дальше.
Некоторые people are just toxic to your life, and it doesn't значит that they are bad people. It просто значит that your lives are going in two different directions, and that the only way you both can live your best lives is to split apart чтобы you both may have пространство-место to расти.
You can't always change the people around you, it has been hard enough to change yourself right? All that you really have control over when you are dealing with others is if you really want to deal with them, and work things out, or if you do not.
There are many relationships that can be fixed with just a little work, but if both parties aren't willing to change and compromise, then there is more than likely, no good reason to attempt these changes, and it will probably just be best for both parties to move on.
Some people are just toxic to your life, and it doesn't mean that they are bad people. It just means that your lives are going in two different directions, and that the only way you both can live your best lives is to split apart so that you both may have room to grow.
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даже хотя we know for a fact that they don't work, chances are you will never достигните the things in life that you want to, and this относится к every aspect of our lives, включая our relationships.
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Some people are just programmed and wired to be negative в любых обстоятельствах, and it isn't your job, and it is nearly невозможно for you to make them change, a person has to be willing to change on their own. Следовательно, if a person acts как будто nothing you do, nothing you say, and none of your усилий are good enough to impress* them, продолжая to try to do so will сведет вас с ума.
Вместо wasting* time trying to удовлетворить someone else, do things to доставить удовлетворение yourself, типа find someone else who will ценить по достоинству you for the особенный person that you really are.
*If something impresses you, you feel great admiration* -восторг, восхищение- for it:
Cannon's film impresses on many levels.
*If you waste something such as time, money, or energy, you use too much of it
doing something that is not important or necessary, or is unlikely to succeed:
I resolved not to waste money on a hotel. The system wastes a large amount of water.