завтра, в воскресенье вечером я выложу полностью английский текст новым постом.
You can't always change the people вокруг you, it has been hard enough to change
себя, right? All that you really have control over when you имеешь дело с others
is if you really want to иметь дело с them, and work things out, or if you do not.
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There are many отношений (между М и Ж) that can be исправлены with just a little work, but if both стороны aren't willing to меняться and compromise*, then there is более чем, вероятно, no good причины to attempt* these перемены, and it will probably just be best for both сторон to двигаться дальше.
Некоторые people are just toxic to your life, and it doesn't значит that they are bad people. It просто значит that your lives are going in two different directions, and that the only way you both can live your best lives is to split apart чтобы you both may have пространство-место to расти.
*If you compromise with someone, you reach an agreement with them in which you both give up something that you originally wanted. You can also say that two people or groups compromise: Israel had originally wanted $1 billion in aid, but compromised on the $650 million.
*If you attempt to do something, especially something difficult, you try to do it:
The only time that we attempted to do something like that was in the city of Philadelphia.